Are you in a relationship?

silent_ · Postby **silent_** » Tue Jul 29, 2014 2:08 pm

Let us not discuss sex, because that breaks the forum rules, and Joey will ban us all, okay?

I'm not in a relationship at the moment, but I was for a brief period of time.

Postby **Marina** » Tue Jul 29, 2014 2:12 pm

..... I'm not sure you know how sex works but whatever.

I've been in two online relationships (if those count) and have one friend-with-benefits, but that's it.

I've never had a real life boyfriend. I'm just lonely anc craving for attention ;-;

silent_ · Postby **silent_** » Tue Jul 29, 2014 2:16 pm

Original post edited.

GLuigiX wrote:..... I'm not sure you know how sex works but whatever.

I feel like I've failed at life. =(

GLuigiX wrote:I've been in two online relationships (if those count) and have one friend-with-benefits, but that's it.

I've never had a real life boyfriend. I'm just lonely anc craving for attention ;-;

Online relationships count, yes.

Postby **Marina** » Tue Jul 29, 2014 2:19 pm

Yay. Funny thing: I broke up with both bc I couldn't stay the distance. Even tho the first one was practically in the same town as me but we never got to meet.

The first one was a girl, bc back then I didn't know I was gay yet. The second one was with a guy from Sweden and I got really frustrated after a while bc we couldn't physically be with each other.

Moral of the story: Online relationships are a no-no for me.

silent_ · Postby **silent_** » Tue Jul 29, 2014 2:35 pm

Knux wrote:online relationships just lead to disappointment when you meet the person

I know, most of the time they're either seventy five year old pedophiles acting to be a young cute girl on the dating website you were on or just butt-ugly and smelly.

Postby **Marina** » Tue Jul 29, 2014 2:41 pm

Well I mean, some online relationships work out, but they need MUUUUUCH commitment. Also, like already mentioned the disappointment factor when you meet the person irl.

Maybe that's why I've never had anyone in real life. I'm not like attractive or anything.

Postby **Julia Pseudo** » Tue Jul 29, 2014 5:47 pm

Nope, I am not in a relationship and have not been yet. I can never bring myself to ask anybody.

SMBXxer · Postby **SMBXxer** » Tue Jul 29, 2014 7:24 pm

Yes, I have a girlfriend.
Funny thing is, she asked me if I would go out with her.

Panda · Postby **Panda** » Tue Jul 29, 2014 9:15 pm

Never had a boyfriend here.

About online relationships: I suppose when you watch shows like Catfish it does make people who get into online relationships look weird. iirc I only watched one or two episodes that ended in happiness where they weren't being catfished or whatever.
I met one of my best friends of four years just this week and he was even better than I'd expected, so I wouldn't say relationships online end in disappointment. Mam told me that his Mam asked if I was like he expected and he said "Mam, I know her, I know her - she's lovely." which I am happy about.

However, as for the actual relationships part, I suppose that's a different... point of view? Situation? I don't know the word.
It does hurt a lot not being able to be close to someone you love :'c

Postby **Marina** » Wed Jul 30, 2014 4:55 am

Intellectual-Panda wrote:I met one of my best friends of four years just this week and he was even better than I'd expected, so I wouldn't say relationships online end in disappointment. Mam told me that his Mam asked if I was like he expected and he said "Mam, I know her, I know her - she's lovely." which I am happy about.

Yes, same thing here, I've recently met an online friend of mine (after we hadn't talked in ages) and it was really great, we didn't do anything special, we just spent time together and talked and it was great.

Intellectual-Panda wrote:However, as for the actual relationships part, I suppose that's a different... point of view? Situation? I don't know the word.
It does hurt a lot not being able to be close to someone you love :'c

Ikr, I've been having a crush on this guy for over a year now but I'm afraid to tell him and it's really frustrating and nerve-wrecking. I regularely have dreams about him and it hurts even more because when I wake up I miss him so much but he probably doesn't even care about me :'c

SMBXxer · Postby **SMBXxer** » Wed Jul 30, 2014 5:04 am

GLuigiX wrote: Ikr, I've been having a crush on this guy for over a year now but I'm afraid to tell him and it's really frustrating and nerve-wrecking. I regularely have dreams about him and it hurts even more because when I wake up I miss him so much but he probably doesn't even care about me :'c

Oh man, that's so sad.
I don't want to sound rude here, but, is he gay as well?
That would be really awkward if he wasn't and you asked him out.
Anyway, I hope you ask him and hope he accepts.

Panda · Postby **Panda** » Wed Jul 30, 2014 5:08 am

GLuigiX wrote:Yes, same thing here, I've recently met an online friend of mine (after we hadn't talked in ages) and it was really great, we didn't do anything special, we just spent time together and talked and it was great.

Yay! :D

GLuigiX wrote:Ikr, I've been having a crush on this guy for over a year now but I'm afraid to tell him and it's really frustrating and nerve-wrecking. I regularely have dreams about him and it hurts even more because when I wake up I miss him so much but he probably doesn't even care about me :'c

That's just heartbreaking to read, I'm sure he cares about you more than you realise :c

Postby **Marina** » Wed Jul 30, 2014 5:08 am

SMBXxer wrote:Oh man, that's so sad.
I don't want to sound rude here, but, is he gay as well?

That's kinda the problem. I have no idea.

I mean, he's probably straight, and I've been trying to get over him for a long time now but I just can't.

And I feel really guilty because I always watch him from afar and I've excessively been trying not to stalk him.
I'm just hopelessly in love :/

Edit: Also sometimes I have the feeling he knows that I like him. I mean, it's pretty obvious, almost all my friends have noticed by now.

On Valentine's day someone dared me to ask him out, but it was more as a joke. Well I did it, but it was pretty obvious I wasn't serious and ofc he said no. But he's definitely not homophobic or anything, but then again, I also thought that about the last guy I had a crush on, but when he found out that I liked him, things got pretty awkward and we stopped talking to each other. ._.

Postby **Raster** » Wed Jul 30, 2014 5:59 am

I had a boyfriend but we broke up after like two weeks. I'm single now.

silent_ · Postby **silent_** » Wed Jul 30, 2014 8:35 am

GLuigiX wrote:That's kinda the problem. I have no idea.

I mean, he's probably straight, and I've been trying to get over him for a long time now but I just can't.

And I feel really guilty because I always watch him from afar and I've excessively been trying not to stalk him.
I'm just hopelessly in love :/

Edit: Also sometimes I have the feeling he knows that I like him. I mean, it's pretty obvious, almost all my friends have noticed by now.

On Valentine's day someone dared me to ask him out, but it was more as a joke. Well I did it, but it was pretty obvious I wasn't serious and ofc he said no. But he's definitely not homophobic or anything, but then again, I also thought that about the last guy I had a crush on, but when he found out that I liked him, things got pretty awkward and we stopped talking to each other. ._.

Man, that sucks. I wish you luck in the future of maybe getting to be with him.

SMBXxer · Postby **SMBXxer** » Wed Jul 30, 2014 8:49 am

GLuigiX wrote:
SMBXxer wrote:Oh man, that's so sad.
I don't want to sound rude here, but, is he gay as well?
That's kinda the problem. I have no idea.

I mean, he's probably straight, and I've been trying to get over him for a long time now but I just can't.

And I feel really guilty because I always watch him from afar and I've excessively been trying not to stalk him.
I'm just hopelessly in love :/

Edit: Also sometimes I have the feeling he knows that I like him. I mean, it's pretty obvious, almost all my friends have noticed by now.

On Valentine's day someone dared me to ask him out, but it was more as a joke. Well I did it, but it was pretty obvious I wasn't serious and ofc he said no. But he's definitely not homophobic or anything, but then again, I also thought that about the last guy I had a crush on, but when he found out that I liked him, things got pretty awkward and we stopped talking to each other. ._.

Aw man, that really sucks.
I hope thinks work out.

sleepy · Postby **sleepy** » Wed Jul 30, 2014 11:01 am

i had a girl once but she was a real bitch

trying this online relationship with someone from the UK.. long distance is hard

Warlock · Postby **Warlock** » Wed Jul 30, 2014 12:19 pm

I've had five relationships so far (not all at once XD) and most have gone pretty well. I've recently asked out my first, and she said yes. The only problem is I'm teased and stuff because she only has one leg and is usually in a wheelchair. At times she will wear a prosthetic but she won't have it for long. Still, we talk often, we go out, and she's beautiful. It was love at first sight.